9 Best Ways to develop your kid’s communication skill

Speak and Listen to your child

Develop Communication Skill in Kids: Child’s mind is pure and valuable as the morning sunshine; we should protect it, enjoy it, admire it, and let it be.

Parents are always on the lookout for ways to develop their children’s communication.

Well you have come to the right place. In this article we will be talking about 9 best ways to improve communication in children.


  1. What is communication?
  2. Why is communication important in child development?
  3. How to develop communication skill in children?
  4. Language based activity Ideas
  5. Note to Parents, Idea and Tips
  6. Conclusion

What is communication?

Communication is the process of imparting or exchanging of information by speaking, writing, or using some other medium.

Though communication we connect with others by exchanging ideas and feelings.

Communication has two parts to it verbally and non-verbal.

We communicate from the minute we are born. We start with sounds like crying, smiling, squealing and move on to expression and gestures such as frowning, nodding, pointing.

During initial years communication is used mainly to have needs met and to establish a connection with close ones.

Children’s communication skills grow by leaps and bounds during the first few years of their life.

How to develop communication skill in children

Sing Vocabulary Words

Build up this ability by making clever tunes about rhyming words. And counting to 10, or sing simple, classical tunes, for example, songs like the Alphabet Song and “The Itsy-Bitsy Spider.”

Let them sing in the vehicle, while playing at home, and during bath time.

When your kid goes to day care or preschool, approach the instructor for the class. Learn their songs and sing them at home also.

Train the tunes to grand parents and baby sitters. So the entirety of the important individuals in your kid’s life will be associated with this carefree action.

Your kid will begin learning through tune. As he/she discusses letters, numbers, days of the week, and body parts to melodic tunes.

Stay Away from Labeling

Words make the world. When, as guardians, you choose to brand your kid for certain conduct. Your youngster will accept that the he/she is exactly like that.

If you call them ‘stupid’, they believe it. They trust you. That is just child’s nature.

Naming the youngster, closes their choices of re correcting themselves too.

This may prompt low confidence in your child.

Make sure to consistently be wary of your words particularly while you are correcting your child’s wrong doings.

Label Your Household

Stay away from labelling -but label your house! What do I mean? . Well, this includes labeling or nicknaming household items & equipment.

Pick only a couple of things to label in your home. For example, the TV, the cooler, chairs, windows and change the places of them once or twice a month.

Make labels the similar size and continue with a basic text style so children can recognize them without any problem.

Type, print, and cut out individual words; at that point use blue painter’s tape (which allows simple removal of things) to stick them to objects.

You can likewise stick the words to plastic, board or paper cards and stick them on objects.

Take on the Town

Get your child to know places – by taking them to the town with you. Get your child’s attention by pointing to the market, fire station, service station, and different spots of interest.

As you pass each spot, talk about the specifics of these local staples.

This includes who works there, the motivation behind your visit, and what things you find inside.

At that point draw or print photos of these spots and put them on paper cards alongside their information.

Whenever you are out with your kid, allude to these “neighborhood” cards.

Be a Good Listener

Youngsters desire for attention constantly. As children develop, they become increasingly independent.

But at this very young age, they are not trying to be independent, it is the other way around.

Preschoolers and little children will try to express emotions and communicate more by talking. Particularly during when their language skills are evolving.

As guardians, you can give a patient hearing to what they are tying to tell. This will cause them to feel sure and secure in your company, presence.

This sets priority for them to be good listeners themselves and it builds up their character.

Let them Play

Free play has largely reduced among the children of this time due to such many reasons.

Nothing can teach your child morals like sharing, resilience, caring and team spirit like playing a game. Sports and games are the best character improvement exercises for kids.

Tragically though, numerous number of parents today shield their youngsters from field play. And even confine them from taking up any game.

For a general physical and mental wellbeing of your child, you should let them participate in a game effectively.

It is likewise important for youngsters to loosen up each day from the pressure of schoolwork and stay bright.

Encourage Independence

Parents of babies for the most part help the youngster with all their work.

This is done to a degree that the little one quits encouraging the improvement of any independence or individuality.

While it is essential to be mindful and caring. It likewise important to instruct children to gradually deal with their own simple needs.

For things like gathering their stuff and packing their school bag to class. Or brushing their teeth or getting their work done.

You can urge your youngster to do it by themselves with minimum management, from the parent’s part.

This trains them in basic abilities as well as improves their awareness of other’s expectations

Try Out Textures

This one is mainly for toddlers. You can try this with 5 to 9-year old’s too. Although I am not sure if it is as effective. 

Babies are tactile students who love to contact, smell, and taste to comprehend their general surroundings.

Use a dark marker to trace letters of the alphabet set as well as numbers onto banner paper; at that point have your tot design the letters with finished things.

For example, sandpaper, beans, cotton balls, pastas, and paper cleaners.

Contacting the letters offers kids the chance to feel the way a letter is shaped.

For very young ones figuring out how to write, let their fingers can explore different shapes. Know the shape of a letter before getting to use a writing utensil.

Every day loudly say the letters and numbers – so the child can hear and run their fingers over them.

Later, develop the activity by making a banner that spells out his first name.

Before long, your youngster will see these letters on signs, banners, and bulletins.

Read to your Child

Read to your Child. Better still read along with your child. I once heard a joke that goes like this… when do you know you are a parent?

When it takes 30 minutes to read a book that does not have more than 30 words. While this might sound funny but strangely it is true, and we do agree with this.

When I say read along with your child it not necessarily means the child must read what is written. Of course, they will be a stage when the child will attempt to read what is written.

If your kid is not of that age, still, read along with your child. Meaning let your child turn the pages.

Ask questions of about the pictures present in the page. Ask your child to spot a character in the page. Example where is the goat?

Let your child pick the book they wish to read alone. Even if it means the same one who along with it. For your child, the book is still not over.

If you are successful in making this activity a pleasurable one.

Then you have succeeded in creating successful adult who will turn to books when they seek knowledge.

Fun activity Ideas to develop communication skill in children

Question the mascot:

Dress up as character, if you are playing with your child. If a group of children are playing then one can dress up as a character.

It can be a very simple one as wearing a Cape, wearing a mask. Stand in front of the child now ask the child to ask questions about the character.

Who am I?

This is game most of us would have played during childhood. This this game can be played with the adult asking questions or the child asking questions.

An example: let you child explore a fridge pick up a vegetable hold it behind in his hand.

You will have to guess what the object is by asking a series of yes/ no questions to your child.

Example: Assuming your child is holding a carrot. You ask questions like is it a vegetable? Is it red in colour?, is it Round?. Both you and your child can take turns and play.

What if…?

Think up a selection of ‘What if…?’ scenarios, Ask probing questions to your child.

Example what if it rains? What if you forgot your lunch? What if cows fly?

These types of questions and letting your little one answer will be a good time pass for you. And also help you little one be imaginative and creative India reply.

Go try this and have fun.

Tip hey the movie weird your question is the more imaginative and creative the answer would be.

Move away from rational questions to have more fun.

 Invite for a party

Help the child invite friends over for small evening party. Let the child play the host.  Encourage the child to engage and chat with the guest.

Watch as the conversations flow freely. You can make it more interesting by creating an invitation card along with your child. Let your child invite her friends.

My favorite

Give a topic and ask the child to speak about it. Example my favorite toy. My favorite animal. My favorite cars.

You can make it more engaging by asking questions back to the child on the topic the child has picked.

This helps the child not only to express his feelings but also stand to defend them.

Mystery Box

Take a Cardboard box and cut out too small round holes. Make it just enough for your child’s hand to slide through its easily.

Make sure it is not too big so that the article inside remains a mystery to the child. Place few articles inside, simple ones which you feel your child is familiar with.

Now ask you child to leave his hands inside the Cardboard box and guess what articles are there.

Ask them to explain it to you what they are feeling and their guesses. Same game can be played when a child receives a gift box.

Note to Parents

During the early childhood years, responsive families and teachers are critical for rich stimulation of children’s communication skills.

It helps to develop communication skill. Do try to talk and engage with your little one.

The more you give them opportunities to talk or communicate the faster your child will pick up language.

Fathers have an equally important role to play as mothers. Read our article 11 Amazing ways FATHER’S can contribute to child’s success.

Some tips to parents

Listen and Respond positively when you child makes attempt to communicate. Even if it is just gesturing, sounds or funny looks.

Talk as often as possible to your child. It can even be a simple running commentary of what you are doing while you are cooking.

We usually ask children how their day was. While this is good try also narrating your day to them.

While they may not understand all that you are saying. They sure will observe you and learn a word or two.

Try to recognize your child’s feelings. Look for cues and build on it. If the child shows happiness, then magnify it. If the child feels criticized, then stop it. So, on and so forth.

Communication is 80% nonverbal so take time to teach your child non-verbal communication also.

Try to pick age appropriate vocabulary as much as possible. While yes new word will expand your child’s vocabulary.

But by picking words that can be also pronounced easily will encourage your kids to use it quickly. And there by easily develop communication skill in kids.

E.g. You can say stupendous to an 18-month-old or just use the word good.

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As parents it is important for us to know that our child is watching us closely. The way we talk and interact with others. Will be pretty much the way the child will also try to imitate.

It is important note that it is not just language and vocabulary your child will pick up looking at you. The child will also pick the dialect, the slang and the profanity that you use.

Along with the pronunciation and the tone. There are numerous examples where the child has parroted what they have heard.

Things heard in their house and spoken in public forums causing much embarrassment to the parents.

Your child will follow your lead. While this may sound like a cliche.

But it is best that we interact and communicate the way we would wish our children to interact and communicate. 

God Bless!!..

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Thabitha David

Mother, Wife, Daughter, Sister, Aunt, Friend. She is a MBA Graduate specialized in Human Resources. She is a very proud mother of 3 Kids. (2 Teens & 1 Tween). She is a keen Observer of Life and is a blogger. She writes these articles based on her experience (Success and Failures). She does this with hope to help and ease the pain of at-least one parent as they face the challenges of parenting. Read more from the About Us Page

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